I'm
back yooooooooooo! *Sorry
for the late update.
You've almost lived for 10 years in this Earth and what kind of
person that you ever discovered? Is it you think that everyone is kind, helpful and sincere? Or just everybody is
bad like evil that until it's unacceptable? or you just don't care who
surrounds you and live in your own zone? Predominantly, there are friends and
enemies in your life. They almost live in your life, always and forever.
Before we talk about friends, let us take a look with a picture:
What do you know much about friends? Did you ever ask yourself
what is friend?
Is that:
-They more than family
-The one who you always share secret
-Your anger releasing machine
-You live to entertain them
-They need to entertain you
-Just purposely for fame
-Sincere to them
-Just a part in life, they'll thrown if already useless
-Helping each others
and more....
Actually, there's three types of friends in life.
1. Fake friends
2. Sincere, forever and permanently friends
3. Hi-bye friends
Mostly, you are difficult or too late to realize fake friend is
the one who stays the longest period besides you and they actually harms you
eventually. They're just like making much troubles for you but they'll solve
the problem by themselves. Fake friend spreads the venoms slowly and gently.
They might not directly show their real side or attacking action in front of
you, they do behind. That's why backstabbers are
exist. However, what they'll probably do is trying to ruin your name and image
in a lot of people's front without your knowing. Or maybe they near you because
of some benefits and they're trying to steal and take it.
Not everyone is bad, there's still good people in this world. True
friends always be there for you when you've trouble. They do help or protect
you. There must be several reasons that you set someone to become your best
friend, the one who can be trusted. It's because of maybe you and him or her
have the same thoughts constantly, same attitude, a lot of similarity, or
you're his or her saviour when he or she is spiritually drain or simple again
on the same boat always. Yes, everyone needs true friend. A true friend gives motivation, encouragement and love
to us at the same time.
Hi-bye friend is a kind of friend that you only says HI and leave and say BYE. It's just a temporarily friend, neither
true friend nor enemies. Some of the people are wise to make someone that's
unnecessary in their life as Hi-bye friend. Why does we make someone as hi-bye
friend? Perhaps, you can't accept she or her in your life. Maybe he or she will
harms you, bringing disadvantages to you? Or you just want to know her for a
while and then no more. Kay, there's too much reasons becoming someone as your
Hi-bye friend in your life.
Alright, let us talk about enemy.
Yes, I do believe that everyone has their own enemies. We make it
in a many ways, example like:
#When someone grab your lover, they're the target that you want
to beat them down and grab back the things that you want
#You're the top student in class and suddenly you lose because
of your classmate's improvement and effort, you'll probably take that classmate
as your enemy in your studies
#Someone take down your position, you'll take them as aim and
want to shot them down and climb to the highest
Enemies are everywhere. They hate you, anti you and try to destroy
you. Remember, "enemies are just like energy, you create them but can't
be destroyed" So what
you need to do is just ignore them or trying to reconcile.
No matter how, enemies will show their real feeling towards you.
They just say out what they want,they're trying to hurt you, beat you and make
you down. So do you get me now? It's better to thank the existing of enemies
rather than fake friends rite?
Alright, will be stopped at her for today. Have a nice day :)
